Hang out with your friends, get back in the gym, get back into your hobbies and your interests, and just assume she’ll get in touch when she misses you. Ignore her to attract her. Especially if this girl was your girlfriend or someone you’ve been seeing for a long time. To make a girl want you back after you break up, give her space so that she’ll miss you being around. I didn't talk to her for 6 weeks and I tried to stay away from her - to the point of leaving parties where she was at so she won't feel uncomfortable. You see, we develop feelings for people in their presence and in their absence. If you want to create a real desire - start with attraction - give it some space and time - offer snippets or pieces as incentives - let the woman think about it a little - then give her time to process the information. They always come back. She'll take care of it all on her own because it's an instinctual template she is BORN with, so why mess with nature's perfection. While you’re avoiding her, focus on the hobbies and interests that make you happy, which will make you seem more desirable. I also wonder what it is I can do if the space isn’t enough to have her attracted and committed again. I've been working out more and trying to focus on life stuff, and am planning to buy her some gifts and mail them to her as a sign of dedication to how much I care about our relationship. There's this girl i'm deeply in love with. I'm hoping if I just give her space, and don't talk to her, she'll want to come back to me. She’ll come back to win your attention. Tell her that you understand why she has made the decision she has made, that you respect her choice and that you understand she needs space and time on her own. Many people have come to understand that suffocating an ex is not going to make him or her want to come back. Being with someone affords you the opportunity to experience new and exciting things. 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